I want to
begin by placing this lavender, Ophelia's favorite flower on her coffin. It
seems incredibly fitting that the lavender represents faithfulness. A trait that
all of us here today can testify too, Ophelia certainly possessed it. Here
lies the sweet Ophelia, a girl who had hopes and dreams. She was just a normal
innocent girl, but all of a sudden things started to change bit by bit in her
life. People think that she does not deserve a proper burial, but I indeed
think she does.
Before she
committed "suicide", Ophelia did do things that God would be very
proud of. She did listen to her father, Polonius (rest in peace), when he told
her to stop seeing Hamlet. She was not a wild girl, yet she was a girl who was
always to herself and she brought joy to the kingdom.
When one looks
back on the life of such a beautiful person, it seems so easy to break down at
such a loss, but to me, today is not about loss, sadness or despair. It is
about celebrating the life of a beautiful, loving, caring and special young
lady. Ophelia's pure heart and loyalty to all, gave her credibility the rest of
us could only dream of. To me she was the epitome of goodness. She represented in
my eyes all things true, all things honest and all things innocent. I could not
imagine a person more perfect and faithful than our sweet dear Ophelia.
How I dearly
wish that she would have wed with hamlet .Their love seemed to be so strong that
it would last through any trouble and turmoil. Like a tree in the wind that
hung to its leaves for dear life, Ophelia cared for his love and cared for him
like only true soul mates could have. When my son began to act strangely I
feared that his love would not last. They had differences and for a short while
we all questioned their love, however, I think I speak for us all when I say
that our questions were answered just moments ago when hamlet said,
I lov'd
Ophelia, forty thousand brothers
Could not,
with all their quantity of love,
Make up my sum
Ophelia was a great
inspiration. She was a strong woman and tried her best to make those she loved
happy. May she rest in peace and God take care of her.